February 14th is known worldwide as the day of love and friendship. However, what is most celebrated is love for your partner. Throughout the day, you can see many people on the streets carrying bouquets of flowers and chocolates to give to their loved ones. You might be thinking that this date has already passed, but it is never too late to celebrate love! In this article, we will show you how to ask someone to be your Valentine in SPANISH, along with some useful vocabulary related to this special day.

Pick the Right Place

Valentine’s Day, or “Día de San Valentín,” has a romantic and cheerful atmosphere, making it the perfect occasion to ask someone on a date or to be your boyfriend or girlfriend. That said, remember that the date itself is not as important as choosing the right moment. Find a calm setting and say the magic words:

• “¿Te gustaría salir conmigo?” (Would you like to go on a date with me?)
• “¿Te gustaría ser mi novio/a?” (Would you like to be my boyfriend/girlfriend?)
• “¿Cenamos juntos en San Valentín?” (Shall we have dinner together on Valentine’s Day?)

You don’t need to go to a fancy restaurant or give an expensive gift—sometimes, your presence and sincere intention are more than enough.

Express Your Feelings Honestly

One of the keys to asking someone to be your partner is to be sincere about your feelings. Don’t be afraid of rejection—being honest will show that you are a person with a great heart. Speak from the heart and don’t rehearse too much—just be yourself. You can say things like:

• “Me siento muy bien a tu lado.” (I feel really good by your side.)
• “Creo que me gustas.” (I think I like you.)
• “Eres muy especial.” (You’re very special.)
• “Te quiero.” (I love you.)
• “Me gustaría que tuviéramos una relación.” (I would like us to be in a relationship.)

Make It Unique and Creative

Valentine’s Day is a perfect opportunity to do something special, so why not add a personal touch to your proposal? As we mentioned before, it’s not about spending money—it’s about expressing your feelings. You can give:

• “Una carta escrita a mano” (a handwritten letter) expressing how you feel.
• “Un peluche” (a cuddly toy).
• “Una caja de bombones” (a box of chocolates).
• “Un ramo de flores” (a bouquet of flowers).
• “Una manualidad” (a handmade craft).
• “Una foto de los dos que sea bonita e importante” (a beautiful and meaningful photo of the two of you).

Respect Their Feelings

Even if you feel something special for someone, that doesn’t mean they will feel the same way about you. If you have doubts, try to read their body language to see if the feelings are mutual. If you decide to ask and receive a negative response, don’t panic or take it personally. Everyone has the right to their own feelings, and life won’t always go as we want. Respect their choice and handle the situation with maturity.

Final Thoughts

Love is something we cherish and want to share with others, but it is also important to consider how others feel. And remember, many people love us in different ways—so spread that love and don’t stress about anything else.

💖 Happy Valentine’s Day! 💖

AUTHOR: MARIA PILAR CASABÁN
PHOTO: DESIGNECOLOGIST

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